Revision 384390

I wish I could have commited this in smaller chunks

- Added support for the openwire loose encoding to the .NET port
- Fixed the InactivityMonitor, it was timing out conections too often and testcase for it would fail intermitently
- Improved the wire format option negociation phase.  
   - We now gaurd to sending the WireformatInfo, so it's only sent once even if the start method is called multiple times.  
   - We now wait for the WireFormatInfo to be sent before reconfiguring the WireFormat with the new negociated options
   - Option negociation is now simpler to understand:
     - The WireFormatInfo is allways sent with all options turned off
     - Once WireFormatInfo's are exchanged, we enable the options on the WireFormat that both sides enabled.